Why?

In my work I do not think about it once, what is the reason that people often áttaposnak Help on instead of those who missed it should be. (Please do not földhözragadtan understand.)
Why?
Then I find out how much easier is to be this way. The time is too precious to listen to each other, give advice másnkak. Of course, this is the case, this form is not true, because many people who have been handing out advice, even when nobody asks for them.
Would that be wrong? I do not think so. The man is happy to help others. Or maybe you?
Would that be wrong? I do not think so. After all, if you invoke thoughts of ourselves, we tell them, to describe an e-mail or letter, we have something for humanity. Or ourselves.
The question in each case in a professional to help you why? Who is helping whom?
Lay helpers feel free to support the needy, but why? Food for thought.
But even more is that many professional assistance why not???
Appear to be pessimistic? Maybe. My question is only so much, why? :-)